Stand or sit tall, relax your jaw, and inhale through the nose for four counts, adding a tiny top-up sip of air. Exhale slowly through the mouth for six to eight counts. Repeat three rounds. Feel your shoulders settle, belly soften, and mind sharpen, even while the laundry hums nearby.
Quietly say, “I’m noticing frustration,” or “Here is worry.” Acknowledge it without judgment, then lengthen your exhale. Labeling emotion reduces limbic spin; the longer exhale recruits calm. Use it mid-spill, during sibling squabbles, or after a tense text. One minute later, your reactions feel less urgent and more workable.
Starting at the jaw, then shoulders, hands, belly, and feet, notice tension and release just ten percent. Feel clothing on skin, ground under heels, air on cheeks. No fixing, just sensing. This brisk scan steadies attention, interrupts spirals, and brings you back into the room with your child fully present.
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